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How to Get Him Back

Friday, February 29th, 2008

By Terry Hernon MacDonald If you’ve been dating a guy, and he’s suddenly busy, his calls have dropped off, and he’s just not giving you the attention he used to, it’s upsetting. It’s especially so if he came on strong at first when you weren’t even particularly interested in him. All of a sudden, he’s acting as if he’s doing you a big favor. How do you get his attention again? First off, determine if you really and truly want his attention (you may be thinking, ‘Of course I do,’ but please slow down and think this over). If you decide he’s worth it, here’s what you must do: Back away slowly. This is not for sissies, but trust me, it’s the only way you’re ever going to get him back. It takes discipline. It takes self-love. And you must do it. This means you do not, under any circumstances, email the dude. You don’t call him to see how he’s doing. You don’t come up with a scheme to score tickets to opening day of his favorite baseball team and casually invite him to go with you (I’ve tried this scheme; the tickets were for The Stones. The guy in question took me up on the offer all right, but that was pretty much the last time I saw him). The key is to keep busy (no waiting for the phone to ring, please). Let him come after you. Yes, I know you’ve heard this before. Hey, I’d heard it before, but it didn’t work until I actually gave it a try. If the guy likes you, he’ll miss you. If he doesn’t, nothing you say or do or wear will ever change that. Terry MacDonald is the happily married author of “How to Attract and Marry the Man of Your Dreams.” Sign up for free dating tips at http://www.marrysmart.com . Check out her blog at http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Terry_Hernon_MacDonald http://EzineArticles.com/?How-to-Get-Him-Back&id=463484 ambien generic vs ambien cause hallucinations ambien cr free offer ambien and pregnancy

Brink’s Unified Theory of Nutrition For Weight Loss and Muscle Gain

Friday, February 29th, 2008

By Will Brink When people hear the term Unified Theory, some times called the Grand Unified Theory, or even “Theory of Everything,” they probably think of it in terms of physics, where a Unified Theory, or single theory capable of defining the nature of the interrelationships among nuclear, electromagnetic, and gravitational forces, would reconcile seemingly incompatible aspects of various field theories to create a single comprehensive set of equations. Such a theory could potentially unlock all the secrets of nature and the universe itself, or as theoretical physicist Michio Katu, puts it “an equation an inch long that would allow us to read the mind of God.” That’s how important unified theories can be. However, unified theories don’t have to deal with such heady topics as physics or the nature of the universe itself, but can be applied to far more mundane topics, in this case nutrition. Regardless of the topic, a unified theory, as sated above, seeks to explain seemingly incompatible aspects of various theories. In this article I attempt to unify seemingly incompatible or opposing views regarding nutrition, namely, what is probably the longest running debate in the nutritional sciences: calories vs. macro nutrients. One school, I would say the ‘old school’ of nutrition, maintains weight loss or weight gain is all about calories, and “a calorie is a calorie,” no matter the source (e.g., carbs, fats, or proteins). They base their position on various lines of evidence to come to that conclusion. The other school, I would call more the ‘new school’ of thought on the issue, would state that gaining or losing weight is really about where the calories come from (e.g., carbs, fats, and proteins), and that dictates weight loss or weight gain. Meaning, they feel, the “calorie is a calorie” mantra of the old school is wrong. They too come to this conclusion using various lines of evidence. This has been an ongoing debate between people in the field of nutrition, biology, physiology, and many other disciplines, for decades. The result of which has led to conflicting advice and a great deal of confusion by the general public, not to mention many medical professionals and other groups. Before I go any further, two key points that are essential to understand about any unified theory: A good unified theory is simple, concise, and understandable even to lay people. However, underneath, or behind that theory, is often a great deal of information that can take up many volumes of books. So, for me to outline all the information I have used to come to these conclusions, would take a large book, if not several and is far beyond the scope of this article. A unified theory is often proposed by some theorist before it can even be proven or fully supported by physical evidence. Over time, different lines of evidence, whether it be mathematical, physical, etc., supports the theory and thus solidifies that theory as being correct, or continued lines of evidence shows the theory needs to be revised or is simply incorrect. I feel there is now more than enough evidence at this point to give a unified theory of nutrition and continuing lines of evidence will continue (with some possible revisions) to solidify the theory as fact. “A calorie is a calorie” The old school of nutrition, which often includes most nutritionists, is a calorie is a calorie when it comes to gaining or losing weight. That weight loss or weight gain is strictly a matter of “calories in, calories out.” Translated, if you “burn” more calories than you take in, you will lose weight regardless of the calorie source and if you eat more calories than you burn off each day, you will gain weight, regardless of the calorie source. This long held and accepted view of nutrition is based on the fact that protein and carbs contain approx 4 calories per gram and fat approximately 9 calories per gram and the source of those calories matters not. They base this on the many studies that finds if one reduces calories by X number each day, weight loss is the result and so it goes if you add X number of calories above what you use each day for gaining weight. However, the “calories in calories out” mantra fails to take into account modern research that finds that fats, carbs, and proteins have very different effects on the metabolism via countless pathways, such as their effects on hormones (e.g., insulin, leptin, glucagon, etc), effects on hunger and appetite, thermic effects (heat production), effects on uncoupling proteins (UCPs), and 1000 other effects that could be mentioned. Even worse, this school of thought fails to take into account the fact that even within a macro nutrient, they too can have different effects on metabolism. This school of thought ignores the ever mounting volume of studies that have found diets with different macro nutrient ratios with identical calorie intakes have different effects on body composition, cholesterol levels, oxidative stress, etc. Translated, not only is the mantra “a calorie us a calorie” proven to be false, “all fats are created equal” or “protein is protein” is also incorrect. For example, we no know different fats (e.g. fish oils vs. saturated fats) have vastly different effects on metabolism and health in general, as we now know different carbohydrates have their own effects (e.g. high GI vs. low GI), as we know different proteins can have unique effects. The “calories don’t matter” school of thought This school of thought will typically tell you that if you eat large amounts of some particular macro nutrient in their magic ratios, calories don’t matter. For example, followers of ketogenic style diets that consist of high fat intakes and very low carbohydrate intakes (i.e., Atkins, etc.) often maintain calories don’t matter in such a diet. Others maintain if you eat very high protein intakes with very low fat and carbohydrate intakes, calories don’t matter. Like the old school, this school fails to take into account the effects such diets have on various pathways and ignore the simple realities of human physiology, not to mention the laws of thermodynamics! The reality is, although it’s clear different macro nutrients in different amounts and ratios have different effects on weight loss, fat loss, and other metabolic effects, calories do matter. They always have and they always will. The data, and real world experience of millions of dieters, is quite clear on that reality. The truth behind such diets is that they are often quite good at suppressing appetite and thus the person simply ends up eating fewer calories and losing weight. Also, the weight loss from such diets is often from water vs. fat, at least in the first few weeks. That’s not to say people can’t experience meaningful weight loss with some of these diets, but the effect comes from a reduction in calories vs. any magical effects often claimed by proponents of such diets. Weight loss vs. fat loss! This is where we get into the crux of the true debate and why the two schools of thought are not actually as far apart from one another as they appear to the untrained eye. What has become abundantly clear from the studies performed and real world evidence is that to lose weight we need to use more calories than we take in (via reducing calorie intake and or increasing exercise), but we know different diets have different effects on the metabolism, appetite, body composition, and other physiological variables… Brink’s Unified Theory of Nutrition …Thus, this reality has led me to Brink’s Unified Theory of Nutrition which states: “Total calories dictates how much weight a person gains or loses; macro nutrient ratios dictates what a person gains or loses” This seemingly simple statement allows people to understand the differences between the two schools of thought. For example, studies often find that two groups of people put on the same calorie intakes but very different ratios of carbs, fats, and proteins will lose different amounts of bodyfat and or lean body mass (i.e., muscle, bone, etc.). Some studies find for example people on a higher protein lower carb diet lose approximately the same amount of weight as another group on a high carb lower protein diet, but the group on the higher protein diet lost more actual fat and less lean body mass (muscle). Or, some studies using the same calorie intakes but different macro nutrient intakes often find the higher protein diet may lose less actual weight than the higher carb lower protein diets, but the actual fat loss is higher in the higher protein low carb diets. This effect has also been seen in some studies that compared high fat/low carb vs. high carb/low fat diets. The effect is usually amplified if exercise is involved as one might expect. Of course these effects are not found universally in all studies that examine the issue, but the bulk of the data is clear: diets containing different macro nutrient ratios do have different effects on human physiology even when calorie intakes are identical (1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11). Or, as the authors of one recent study that looked at the issue concluded: “Diets with identical energy contents can have different effects on leptin concentrations, energy expenditure, voluntary food intake, and nitrogen balance, suggesting that the physiologic adaptations to energy restriction can be modified by dietary composition.”(12) The point being, there are many studies confirming that the actual ratio of carbs, fats, and proteins in a given diet can effect what is actually lost (i.e., fat, muscle, bone, and water) and that total calories has the greatest effect on how much total weight is lost. Are you starting to see how my unified theory of nutrition combines the “calorie is a calorie” school with the “calories don’t matter” school to help people make decisions about nutrition? Knowing this, it becomes much easier for people to understand the seemingly conflicting diet and nutrition advice out there (of course this does not account for the down right unscientific and dangerous nutrition advice people are subjected to via bad books, TV, the ‘net, and well meaning friends, but that’s another article altogether). Knowing the above information and keeping the Unified Theory of Nutrition in mind, leads us to some important and potentially useful conclusions: An optimal diet designed to make a person lose fat and retain as much LBM as possible is not the same as a diet simply designed to lose weight. A nutrition program designed to create fat loss is not simply a reduced calorie version of a nutrition program designed to gain weight, and visa versa. Diets need to be designed with fat loss, NOT just weight loss, as the goal, but total calories can’t be ignored. This is why the diets I design for people-or write about-for gaining or losing weight are not simply higher or lower calorie versions of the same diet. In short: diets plans I design for gaining LBM start with total calories and build macro nutrient ratios into the number of calories required. However, diets designed for fat loss (vs. weight loss!) start with the correct macro nutrient ratios that depend on variables such as amount of LBM the person carries vs. bodyfat percent , activity levels, etc., and figure out calories based on the proper macro nutrient ratios to achieve fat loss with a minimum loss of LBM. The actual ratio of macro nutrients can be quite different for both diets and even for individuals. Diets that give the same macro nutrient ratio to all people (e.g., 40/30/30, or 70,30,10, etc.) regardless of total calories, goals, activity levels, etc., will always be less than optimal. Optimal macro nutrient ratios can change with total calories and other variables. Perhaps most important, the unified theory explains why the focus on weight loss vs. fat loss by the vast majority of people, including most medical professionals, and the media, will always fail in the long run to deliver the results people want. Finally, the Universal Theory makes it clear that the optimal diet for losing fat, or gaining muscle, or what ever the goal, must account not only for total calories, but macro nutrient ratios that optimize metabolic effects and answer the questions: what effects will this diet have on appetite? What effects will this diet have on metabolic rate? What effects will this diet have on my lean body mass (LBM)? What effects will this diet have on hormones; both hormones that may improve or impede my goals? What effects will this diet have on (fill in the blank)? Simply asking, “how much weight will I lose?” is the wrong question which will lead to the wrong answer. To get the optimal effects from your next diet, whether looking to gain weight or lose it, you must ask the right questions to get meaningful answers. Asking the right questions will also help you avoid the pitfalls of unscientific poorly thought out diets which make promises they can’t keep and go against what we know about human physiology and the very laws of physics! There are of course many additional questions that can be asked and points that can be raised as it applies to the above, but those are some of the key issues that come to mind. Bottom line here is, if the diet you are following to either gain or loss weight does not address those issues and or questions, then you can count on being among the millions of disappointed people who don’t receive the optimal results they had hoped for and have made yet another nutrition “guru” laugh all the way to the bank at your expense. Any diet that claims calories don’t matter, forget it. Any diet that tells you they have a magic ratio of foods, ignore it. Any diet that tells you any one food source is evil, it’s a scam. Any diet that tells you it will work for all people all the time no matter the circumstances, throw it out or give it to someone you don’t like! Copyright 2005 Internet Publications See more excellent bodybuilding, fat loss, and sports nutrition articles from Will Brink here: http://www.brinkzone.com/onlinearticles.htmlAnd see Will’s other websites here:http://www.dietsupplementsreview.com http://www.musclebuildingguide.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Will_Brink http://EzineArticles.com/?Brinks-Unified-Theory-of-Nutrition-For-Weight-Loss-and-Muscle-Gain&id=41268 ambien health zolpidem buy ambien side effects ambien addiction anti seizure ativan

Suggestions for Scrapbook: Journaling a 25th Anniversary Celebration

Thursday, February 28th, 2008

By Jessica Gerald It’s hard to believe that my husband and I will be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary this year. We are having a dinner party at the church where we got married. I’m already planning a scrapbook of the event. Here are some of the things that will be included. Maybe you can get some ideas here for your next celebration. 1. Digital photos My sister will be bringing her digital camera. I want to get a picture of every family or couple who attends. In my scrapbook, I will write who they are and any special memories about them. I will also be taking pictures of the church, even though it has been totally remodeled since we were married there. Pictures of the cake and dinner food will make a nice addition, along with a copy of the menu and mention of who catered it. 2. Guestbook pages I’m not sure what type of guest book we will have. If it is already in a nice album, I’ll make a copy of the pages for my scrapbook. One idea would be to have pretty guestbook pages in a looseleaf binder. Then, I could just take them out and put them in a plastic sleeve in my anniversary album. 3. Invitations A copy of the invitation will probably be the first page of my album. On the other side will be an original invitation from my wedding. 4. Then and now pictures I want to take picture copies of my wedding showing my husband and myself, my parents, bridal party, and special guests. Across from each of these, I will put pictures of these same people now. There will be captions under each picture, identifying the people, and writing something special about them. 5. The album The pages of the album will be wedding-type scrapbook paper. My favorite color is pink, so there will probably be a lot of that color in the pages. The pictures will be spaced so there is room for a paragraph or so to describe each. Finally, each page will be in an acid-free, archival quality plastic sleeve for preservation and protection. If you are planning a celebration of any kind this summer, let your imagination go free. Come up with ideas of pictures, scrapbook layouts, and written descriptions that you will treasure for years to come. It will provide you with many hours of enjoyment and memories. By Jessica Gerald http://www.familyhistorywriting.com http://www.ladiesprayerministry.com http://www.oldfashionedhomemaking.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jessica_Gerald http://EzineArticles.com/?Suggestions-for-Scrapbook:-Journaling-a-25th-Anniversary-Celebration&id=215968 ambien and pricing and europe ambien withdraw purchase ambien without a prescription keyworddiscount ambien

Flatfeet in Children: When Are They A Problem?

Wednesday, February 27th, 2008

By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Christine_Dobrowolski,_DPM] Christine Dobrowolski, DPM There are high arch feet and low arch feet and many different foot types in between. Many individuals have flatfeet, but do not have foot problems. All of us are born with flatfeet and some of the greatest athletes have flatfeet. But, flatfeet are a problem when the arch completely collapses in combination with excess inward rotation in the foot. This type of flatfoot causes excess stress on the joints, ligaments and tendons in the foot and ankle. If not treated appropriately, tendon and joint problems will develop. Flatfeet are normal in infants and the arch will not start to develop until between four and eight years of age. Up until this time, all children will have flatfeet. Many children under the age of 4 may have excessively flatfeet and excess rotation in their feet. How do you tell the difference? The following list may indicate that your toddler’s flatfeet are a problem: 1. Your child is over 15 months of age and has not started walking. 2. Your child started walking around 12 months but seems to prefer crawling. 3. Your child is between the ages of 2-4 and complains of foot pain or leg pain. In many instances, this leg pain is confused with growing pains. 4. The wear on your child’s shoe is uneven. 5. Your child’s arch is touching the ground and the ankles look like they are rolling in, bringing the knees together. For toddlers, the typical treatment is a kiddie orthotic. This is a pre-made orthotic which comes in different sizes. It will fit into any of your child’s shoes and should be comfortable for them. This will help stabilize their foot while they are walking. In severe cases, or in children ages 3 and 4, a custom made orthotic may be necessary. A custom made orthotic is a device that involves taking a mold of the foot, typically done with plaster, but sometimes done with foam. A device is made with specific corrections for your child’s foot and looks like a plastic insert. This insert can slip into the shoe and can be switched from shoe to shoe. Children can wear the same insert for up to 2 shoe sizes, then a new pair must be made. Although the insert will not change the way the foot develops, it will support the foot and allow for a more normal walking pattern. In some cases, children only need the orthotic during the first few years, and after the arch develops, the orthotic is no longer needed. In most cases, children will not “outgrow” their flatfeet. As the arch develops between 4 and 8 years of age, the child’s body goes through numerous changes. The bones grow in length while the leg and thigh bones are rotating. During these years it may be difficult to determine if the flatfeet will become a problem or not. One of best indicators of a problem is pain. Children should not have pain in their feet. They should be able to run around with their friends or in an organized sport without any pain. If your child is having foot, ankle or leg pain, make sure they see a podiatrist. Young children between eight and thirteen years may have flatfeet, but not complain of any pain. This is a common occurrence in this age group, especially if the children are not competitive in any sports. Look for the following: 1. The arch touches the floor and the ankles and feet rotate in. 2. The knees are very close together (knock-knees). 3. Shoes are worn out within 3 months. 4. Wear pattern on the shoe is toward the inside (big toe side). 5. Your child’s gait is bouncy or looks awkward. 6. Your child seems slower than his or her friends or shows a lack of interest in sporting activities despite being athletic. If your child shows any of these signs it is necessary to visit a podiatrist to be evaluated. In many cases, small problems that are developing in this age group can lead to more severe problems down the road. Generalized ankle pain is the most common complaint in children this age with flatfeet. Typically, they will be able to run and play sports, but find that they have a deep, achy pain in and around their ankle when they are done. Children this age have a very difficult time expressing the type of pain they are experiencing and when they experience it. Writing down when the pain happens and where is occurs will help your doctor during the visit. Over fourteen years of age, the growth slows in girls and over the next few years the growth plates in the feet fuse. Boys will have continued growth until 16 to 18 years of age. Children in this age group will typically complain of pain. The most common problem in children with flatfeet in this age group is tendonitis. The pain is either at the back of the heel, or at the inside of the arch. Sometimes the foot and ankle are stiff and sore in the morning, when first stepping down. Walking up and down stairs or hills, squatting or walking on uneven surfaces will cause more pain in these tendons. Treatment of tendonitis involves rest, ice and immobilization for a minimum of two weeks, but two months can be a common recovery time. When these conditions develop as a result of flatfeet, it is necessary to be fit with orthotics to prevent the problem from occurring again. Not every foot needs a custom made orthotic. There are many prefabricated orthotics that work well. A prefabricated orthotic is not the same as an insert. An insert slips into the shoe and will provide comfort, cushion and a little support. In some cases, inserts purchased at the drugstore will help alleviate some arch or heel pain and give relief to sore, tired feet. But, an insert is not an orthotic. Orthotics are devices which fit into the shoe and aid in foot function. The most important difference is an orthotic controls abnormal motion and corrects foot function, while an insert will only provide cushion and comfort. Pre-fabricated orthotics can be found at your local sports store and will help many individuals with flatfeet. They are much cheaper than custom-made orthotics, but they will wear out in 1-2 years. A custom-made orthotic is custom to each foot and corrections are built-in to help the foot function. They are designed to keep stress off the ligaments and tendons in the arch and designed to distribute the pressure evenly while walking. The cover material on the custom-made orthotic may need to be changed every one to two years, but the orthotic itself will last ten years. As expected, custom-made orthotics are much more expensive than prefabricated orthotics or inserts. In summary, all infants have flatfeet, but more severe flatfeet in this group can become a problem. The arch develops between four and eight years of age and predicting long term foot problems in this group can be difficult. Many children, teenagers and adults have flatfeet, yet no foot problems. Therefore, not all flatfeet need to be treated. But, children with foot, ankle or leg pain and flatfeet should be evaluated by a podiatrist. For children with flatfeet and foot pain, custom made orthotics are essential to treatment of the foot problem and for prevention of problems in the future. Christine Dobrowolski is a podiatrist and the author of Those Aching Feet: Your Guide to Diagnosis and Treatment of Common Foot Problems. To learn more about Dr. Dobrowolski and her book visit [http://www.skipublishing.com] http://www.skipublishing.com. For more information on orthotics visit [http://www.northcoastfootcare.com] http://www.northcoastfootcare.com. 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Business Marketing: Four Essential Keys To Know When Writing Your Business Letter

Tuesday, February 26th, 2008

By La Donna Jensen Writing a professional business letter can be a challenge. It is difficult to find the right words and phrases that will generate enough interest to produce a positive response. Business letter writing, is comparable to creating an ad or flyer. Some of the same concepts apply in each scenario. All types of advertising need to capture the attention of your target market quickly. You generally have only 3-4 seconds. Listed below are some key steps in forming your business letter: 1. Initiating the letter. The header should be your company. This is preferably your company logo. It brands your company from the first impression. If they receive future literature or advertisements from you, they will recognize your company immediately. Next, you should begin with an opening paragraph that grabs their attention. Keep all following paragraphs straight forward and to the point. A one page business letter will initiate the most productive results. We live in essentially, a non-read society. 2. Ask key questions that will promote the reader thinking about why they need your service or product. Bullet point the questions and indent them. They should stand out from the rest of the letter. This draws their eye to the questions and will give variety. The questions should be one liners. If readers see that the letter will be quick and easy to read they will be more likely to glance over your letter and pick out the most pertinent information. Questions are also good because it will start them thinking of the answers, which leads to a need for your service or product. 3. Establishing credibility. Show how your company can benefit their business. Help them understand why they need your services over someone else. Explain to them what your company offers and any endorsements or years of experience your company has. Also, by relating to them personally, you will alleviate most hesitation. When writing your letter use the word “you” instead of”I”. They want to know what you can do for them. Another important aspect of establishing credibility is showing “value”. This especially applies when your product or service is priced higher. 4. Call to action phrases that offer an incentive to respond promptly. These should be phrases that promote a discount, time frame, free service or product, introductory offer, etc. It is also best to highlight, change or enlarge font to set the call to action phrase apart from the rest of the letter. This may be the first thing that conquers their attention. You can read my free article on, Marketing And Advertising: Power Point Phrases That Will Create Income. It is listed on this web site along with my other free articles. I have listed specific phrases that may be helpful when writing your business letter. Your business letter should look and sound professional. Nice quality paper exhibits a more professional business letter. Soft blue parchment with black lettering is an excellent choice. It stands out and has a clean look. Because the expense is more for parchment paper, you can use it for clients that yield a higher residual. For mass mailing, white with black lettering is good. Make sure to always have your letterhead at the top showing professionalism. You do not have to be a great writer to compose a beneficial business letter. If your letter is well thought out and direct, it will be effective in achieving the goals you desire. Having someone critique your business letter will also be advantageous. No matter how many times you check for errors, it is easy to miss something. An outsider can also give input on content. They can give an objective view of what you have communicated. For a sample business letter that demonstrates the various criteria visit:www.networkmarketingincome.com/articles.html La Donna Jensen is an expert in marketing and sales for over 15 years. Marketing consultant for a radio show and magazine. Successful owner of own business and Internet entrepreneur. For more articles on marketing and advertising visit: visit:http://www.networkmarketingincome.com/articles.html Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=La_Donna_Jensen http://EzineArticles.com/?Business-Marketing:-Four-Essential-Keys-To-Know-When-Writing-Your-Business-Letter&id=308340 ambien warnigns zolpidem side effects lorazepam extended release ambien on line prescription

Beauty Parlours, Hair Salons and a Little More in China

Monday, February 25th, 2008

By Rajesh Kanoi There are more beauty parlours and hair salons in China alone than in the rest of the world combined. At least, that is my impression. Well, if you make allowances for a little exaggeration you will get the picture. It’s not that the Chinese have more hair but what they do, they like to flaunt. Walk down any street in any Chinese city, town or village and you will see salons cheek by jowl - well, almost! And, there are streets where there are more of these establishments than any other. Beauty parlours and hair salons serve a dual purpose. They do cut, trim, shape and colour hair but many also front for less innocent pleasures. More of that later. Most Chinese have a thick head of hair that neither age nor time can seemingly wither. Old and young, all seem very hirsute - but only at the head level. Cast your eyes a little lower and all signs of hirsuteness begin to wane. Thus, moustaches and beards are a rarity in China. One does see a few people, although rarely, with a not-so-thick moustache but beards seem to grow only on artists’ chins and those of beggars and mendicants. Yet, business thrives within the confines of glass-paned beauty parlours and hair salons. Expert hands scissoring away at long, dark, luxuriously beautiful hair are a sight one can behold any time of the day or night, almost. Around festival times and annual May Day and National Holidays, in particular, business explodes in anticipation of long-awaited vacations and happy reunions. That’s when beauticians and barbers work like Edward Scissorhands, their fingers inspired, their hearts on song. These establishments are often staffed by trained personnel, some with certificates from vocational insitutes specialising in beauty treatment and hair care. Walk into one and you will see stacks of magazines and catalogues from China and abroad, replete with latest pictures of hair styles, beauty treatments and the like. The salons bleach and clour, cut and shape hair into styles that sometimes look captivatingly beautiful on some faces and atrociously inappropriate on some. It’s not entirely their fault when the results are negative for there are clients who want the blonde of Scandinavia or the turquoise of peacocks on their hair. A hair shampoo followed by a cut, dye, another shampoo and a perm can be had for as little as a hundred kuai or twelve dollars fifty! And, young men and women, in particular, are flocking into these establishments to add a zing to their lives and a thing to their hair. Beauty salons that provide services other than beatification, nonetheless, have employees who can wield the scissors and lessen the burden on some heads. These parlours look like their more genuine counterparts, except their glass panes are either smaller or tinted or both, giving passersby just about enough occasion to see their wares, nattily dressed young women with shoes up to their calves and hair styled in all shapes, sizes and colours. Walk in, negotiate, do your business in a curtained/ply-walled room at the back and walk out, singing your favourite song. Rajesh Kanoi (Jack) is a published writer, now living and working in China. Many of his short-stories, poems and articles have been published, including a book of short-stories, ‘From China With Love’ (Lipstick Publishing). http://www.writingup.com/blog/oneinabillion http://o3.indiatimes.com/kjack Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Rajesh_Kanoi http://EzineArticles.com/?Beauty-Parlours,-Hair-Salons-and-a-Little-More-in-China&id=152197 ambien sleep driving ativan addition cialis ambien zolpidem in greece

Is Your Home Safe? The Silent Killers

Sunday, February 24th, 2008

By Lara Berch One would assume that because a product is sold in your local supermarket, advertised on TV or is approved by FDA, then it is perfectly safe for household use such as cleaning, washing, polishing, air freshening and so on. In a perfect world this would be the correct assumption to make. In a perfect world, the manufacturers would not put poison into our products. In a perfect world the industry would care about it’s consumers. Unfortunately, our world is far from the above. I can sit here and endlessly debate about our government, it’s policy, it’s regulations and other issues, but I will not do that. Instead, we are going to recap on one of your regular, ordinary days. Most of us wake up and jump in the shower. If you do not take showers in the morning, don’t worry. I will have plenty for you later in the day. Back to the ones in the shower. I am assuming you are washing your hair with shampoo or so you think. Want to know what you are really washing with? Flip that bottle over and read the fine small print of ingredients. Here is an explanation of a small sample: Amodimethicone - It is silicone fluid. Causes allergic reactions. Formaldehyde - suspected carcinogen. Found in many preservatives. Extremely toxic when inhaled or swallowed. Nearly half of all people exposed to it experience a toxic reaction. FDA banned formaldehyde in cosmetics but guess what? It is still used in shampoos. Cocamidopropyl betaine - How’s eyelid dermatitis sound? It causes it. Ext. D&C Violet #2 - family of coal tars which is made from phthalic anhydride and benzene. This lovely mix causes tumors in lab rats and serious skin rashes. Benzene is a petrochemical solvent known to cause depression, convulsions, coma and death with prolonged exposure. Suspected to cause leukemia. Propylene Glycol - pronounced safe by the FDA.Used in antifreeze and brake fluid. The list goes on and it’s not pretty. You can research the rest yourself. If your ‘re wondering what’s in that body wash of yours, it’s a list similar to the above. Now lets get back to your day. Did I say it’s a Saturday? It’s Saturday and after your ‘re done taking your chemical shower, you decide to do some cleaning. What’s first? Let’s do some tile cleaning with Lysol!!! Main ingredient: Dimethyl Benzyl Ammonium Chlorides - Irritation, corrosive effects to nose, throat, and respiratory tract.” Now let’s do laundry. Some ingredients in Fabric Softeners and Laundry detergents: Benzyl Acetate - carcinogenic and is associated with pancreatic cancer. absorbed through the skin. Benzaldehyde - central nervous system depressant and may cause kidney damage. Camphor - central nervous stimulant. absorbed through bodily tissues. Ethanol - Ethanol is on the EPA list of hazardous waste. It may cause fatigue and impair the central nervous system. This stuff can also be found in paint thinners and nail polish removers. Shall I go on? Want to wash dishes? The list is similar to the above but with a kick. Small residue of these substances are left on the dishes after rinsing and with time it accumulates and makes way onto your food. You are EATING it. Now lets collect all of the above into a big pile and imagine how much of this stuff has made it’s way into your body either through tissue contact, inhalation, or direct consumption over the years? Do you still find it surprising that most americans suffer from some sort of illness be it a chronic fatigue or cancer? Think about it. I do not want to bore you with statistics. It is suffice to say that as the household industry expanded and as consumers increased the use of household cleaning products, the rates for cancers and allergies and other ailments have also gone up. It should also be mentioned that aside from the above stated health effects, the effects on the environment are even greater, so if not for the sake of your own well being, you should think about the well being of your children and grandchildren. They are the ones that are going to have to clean up our mess. http://downwithbasics.com If you enjoyed reading this article, please visit my website http://downwithbasics.com for more. You may reprint this on your site as long as content is not changed and all links remain intact including my website URL. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Lara_Berch http://EzineArticles.com/?Is-Your-Home-Safe?-The-Silent-Killers&id=469022 ativan dependency prozac with ativan buy ambien zolpidem brand ambien zolpidem boards online qoclick

A Child’s Guide to Adoption

Monday, February 18th, 2008

By Martha Osborne How is a family created? Most people think that a family is made when a couple gives birth to children. But families can happen in many ways. In the television show The Brady Bunch, the mother and father get remarried, combining their two families into one. Another way to create a family is by adoption. In legal terms, once a child is adopted, the adult who adopted him is his parent. How is a family created? Most people think that a family is made when a couple gives birth to children. But families can happen in many ways. In the television show The Brady Bunch, the mother and father get remarried, combining their two families into one. Another way to create a family is by adoption. In legal terms, once a child is adopted, the adult who adopted him is his parent. Why do people want to adopt children? There are probably as many reasons for wanting to adopt kids as there are children waiting to be adopted. Some couples are not able to have children for medical reasons but still want to raise a family. Some single adults, although they don’t have a partner or want to get married, desperately want to be a parent. Other kids’ parents might remarry and their new stepparent might adopt them. Whatever way a parent and child come together, whether it’s through birth, marriage, or adoption - a new family is born. What’s Adoption and How Does It Work? The process of adopting a kid can be pretty long and involved. Some single adults and couples have to wait for years to adopt a baby. People wanting to adopt go through extensive background checks including, in some states, having their fingerprints sent to the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI). People who want to adopt kids also meet with social workers or representatives from an adoption agency who ask questions like why they want to adopt, their attitudes toward children, and how they resolve family disagreements. This process is needed so that kids are placed in good homes where they can grow up happy and loved. Why Do Kids Need to Be Adopted? Of course, the financial side is only part of adoption. Babies and kids are a huge responsibility and not everyone is equipped to handle being a parent. If you’ve ever taken care of a puppy, you know that taking care of a pet can be very demanding, and they require lots of attention. Taking care of a baby is probably a hundred times more work! But this is only one of many reasons why there are so many kids waiting to be adopted. In many cases, a young or single woman who gives birth to a baby can’t handle that responsibility so she makes an adoption plan for her baby. Other times, especially in the case of adoptions from other countries, there is war, sickness, or poverty, and a parent may believe that the baby would be better off in another country. Sometimes a kid’s parents may pass away and he needs to go to someone else who can take care of him. If You Were Adopted Kids who were adopted are no different than other kids. But if you were adopted, you may have a little more on your mind than your friends. Sometimes, learning you were adopted may make it hard for you to pay attention in school. Many kids who were adopted wonder about their birth parents and why they didn’t keep them. Sometimes they feel abandoned even if they love their parents and are happy in their home. They may also wonder where they came from and what nationalities they are. These feelings are normal and should be talked about with a parent or another adult who you trust so you can put your mind at ease. Some kids do not find out they were adopted until they are older - sometimes not until they are adults themselves. Their parents might have put off telling them until they thought they would be able to better understand or because they feared what their reaction would be. Finding out later that they were adopted can be more of an adjustment for an older child or adult. That’s why experts say it’s best to explain to a child that he or she was adopted when they are around age 3 or 4, when they are first putting sentences together and can understand complex things. If Your Brother or Sister Was Adopted If your parents had you, the so-called “real kid,” does that make your adopted brother or sister fake? Of course not! Being adopted doesn’t make a sibling any less real or part of the family. There is no question that there are differences between you and your brother or sister. But there would be differences between you if you were both born into your family as well. No two people are alike. Think how boring that would be! The facts are, your brother or sister - adopted or not - is going to be a part of your life for a very long time and you will rely on each other even more as you get older. Talk to your adopted brother or sister about his or her concerns. You might be able to help him or her sort out his or her feelings about being adopted or encourage him or her to talk to a parent or another trusted adult. You might even suggest that you talk about the situation as a family. If Someone You Know Was Adopted If you find out that someone you know, maybe a good friend, was adopted, there is no reason to treat them any differently. Your friend is still the same person they were the day before. If your friend wants or needs to talk about their situation, listen. Your friend will probably feel better just talking about his or her feelings, and by being a good listener, you’ve been a good friend. Knowing how your friend feels about their situation will allow you to stand up to anyone who tries to make fun of them for being different. Adoption can be hard to understand or even accept, but it helps many people in lots of ways - parents who may be unable to take care of kids can place them with people who can, and kids without parents can be part of a family. Martha Osborne is an adoption advocate, adoptive mom and adoptee. She is also the editor of the online adoption publication, RainbowKids.com, the leading online resource for adoption and waiting children. http://www.rainbowkids.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Martha_Osborne http://EzineArticles.com/?A-Childs-Guide-to-Adoption&id=321122 order phentermine diet pills phentermine diet pills cod phentermine union pharmacy phentermine with prescription

Relationship: Compliment a Lot

Saturday, February 16th, 2008

By Julia Jones Look for the good qualities and points in your partner and be generous in making compliments to your partner about that individuality. Compliments are a golden key to your mates heart. Paying honest compliments is a very inexpensive way to reach out to your mates heart. Do not be a miser but generous in giving compliments. Generally people keep to the heart what they admire in their partner especially after marriage. They admire but internally and do not speak out what they find pleasing or nice about the partner. Well, this should not be the way. All of us hunt for compliments. We often like to hear good things about us. Compliments boost us up and give us pleasure. You should constantly remind your partner that there are innumerable things that you admire about your partner. It makes your partner feel good and happy. It is easy to make compliments and yet they have a powerful effect. It makes us feel good about us and great about the person complimenting. We attracted and like the person complimenting us. We never feel bad or disgusted on receiving compliments, whoever gives them to us. And the compliments are given by your mate you feel extremely close to him/her. Never hesitate to say -What I like about you is.. Or you look stunning wearing. Compliment your partner on the looks, the dress up, the outward features, it makes them feel good and look better. More importantly you should compliment them on the internal qualities. Always make it a point to compliment your partner when he or she does something out of the way. Suppose your wife or girlfriend makes arrangement for a special dinner in spite of being busy then make sure to compliment her for her effort. If your husband helps you clean the dirt never fail to compliment.Compliment your partner with a touch of romance in it. At times compliment your partner with a bouquet of flowers for her beauty or a kiss for her kindness. You can compliment your partner with a hug for helping you out in your work or just holding hands to say a thank you. Compliments work like glue and get people together. You get stuck in a relation for ever if you are into the habit of complimenting each other. But make sure to give genuine compliment. You should compliment on what you see and admire and not for the heck of it. We all are aware of most of the qualities about us. Your partner knows when it has been said in a genuine manner. You do not have to hunt for something extra ordinary in your partner to make compliments. You just compliment him or her on the positive qualities or simply when he or she is wearing something nice and attractive.The fact is that if you find yourself criticizing and finding faults with your partner you will tend to split apart whereas if you look at the positive aspect of your partner you will find yourself getting close to each other. So it is a must to notice the good things about your partners and compliment each other and get glued together. Find more information visit: Relationship: Compliment a Lot We at Keepcondom.com are providing you the choices you can make, to select your condom brands according to your needs. Keepcondom.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Julia_Jones http://EzineArticles.com/?Relationship:-Compliment-a-Lot&id=363962 phentermine prescription i want to buy phentermine buy phentermine site cheap phentermine online

Sweet Low Carb Foods - How Do They Do That?

Friday, February 15th, 2008

By Mike Boyd If you’re a low carb diet enthusiast, you’ve probably tried some of those tasty low carbohydrate bars, candies or maybe even broke down and baked a loaf of that really easy to make and great tasting low carb banana bread. And after getting your head around the concept of ‘net carbs’, you may still be wondering what are those sweeteners listed on the labels, such as mannitol, maltitol, sorbitol and others, and how they fit into your Atkins, Protein Power, South Beach or other diets. Known as sugar alcohols, these and other low carb sweeteners are being seen more and more in diet products. And usually you can find several types in your low carb food. Although they are all effectively no to low calorie sweeteners (0.5 to 3.0 calories per gram) they are generally much sweeter than sugar, which allows even the higher calorie per gram products to be classified as low carb and low calorie sweeteners. The reason you’ll see a number of them in your low carb chocolates for instance, is simple. The food tastes better. Food technologists have found that different combinations of low carb sweeteners can have a better flavor in certain foods than when using one type alone. For instance, if you’re making muffins, you want a sweetener that can stand up to the heat of an oven. But if it won’t give you the texture or ‘mouth feel’ you’d expect, then it won’t be popular, no matter how low the carbohydrate count. If you were making a chilled low carb dessert or a low carbohydrate ice cream, you’d want it to be sweet when cold. So the bottom line is taste. Given recent attention to protein based fat replacements, which have great potential for use in all but fried foods, its easy to imagine that some new and tasty low fat, low carb, higher protein and low calorie treats will be coming soon. And that has brought out some strange concerns, such as the idea that if we’re not protected from ourselves by banning these foods, we might starve by consuming too few calories from these low and no calorie dessert and snack foods. But after looking at some of the shoppers I saw during a recent trip to my grocery store, all I could think was, where’s my low carb cheesecake recipe? Mike Boyd is an author and contributing writer for the popular http://www.healthy low carb.com, an online information source for low carb diets, free low carb recipes, diet basics,books, product reviews and informative up to date low carb dieting research low carb cheesecake recipe Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Mike_Boyd http://EzineArticles.com/?Sweet-Low-Carb-Foods—How-Do-They-Do-That?&id=23089 cheap phentermine no rx phentermine buy phentermine buy phentermine online mastercard phentermine order by